QUESTION: I am a 51-year-old man who was widowed three years ago. I recently took on a 38-year-old cleaner and she has been very flirty with me. I couldn’t help responding — I took her out to dinner ...

QUESTION: A good friend is always going on about how much sex she has with her husband. I’ve been with my partner for 14 years — like my pal and her spouse — and we’re lucky if we make love once a ...

Question: I’ve fallen deeply in love with my partner of two years, despite feeling insecure about the relationship. I know he had multiple affairs towards the end of his 21-year marriage and I can’t ...

QUESTION: I had a string of love affairs before meeting my sweet but reserved husband. I fear we're missing some electricity in the bedroom. I've asked him if he can indulge me in my favourite fantasy ...

QUESTION: When I met my sexual partner he was married, but no longer shared a bed with his wife. Since I was recently divorced (after 25 years), I wasn't looking for a serious relationship and, ...

QUESTION: My partner of five years doesn't want to move in with me because he fears our love life will become stale. He says over-familiarity ended sex between him and his ex-wife. But I miss him when ...

The former Erotic Review magazine editor answers your sex questions... QUESTION: I have been going out with a lovely man for a couple of months and like almost everything about him, except the way he ...

Question: After my divorce I had a lot of flings, but now I've met a man I want to stick with. However, he's just come out of a 26-year relationship and says he doesn't wish to make a commitment.

ANSWER: I've sometimes considered writing a book called The Impossibility Of Sex, because that's how fiendishly difficult the whole business can seem when you're outside a relationship - or have never ...

QUESTION: Last year was awful. My husband was working abroad, I almost lost my job and my teenage son was bullied at school. During this time I became over-reliant on a colleague and had a brief fling ...

QUESTION: My husband of 20 years is a lovely, kind man and great father. But having just gone through the menopause, my sex drive has waned and I almost never feel like sex. He can’t accept this and ...